Saturday, December 5, 2009
another borrowed post topic
What are your middle names?
His is Michael. I'd tell you mine, but then I'd have to kill you.
How long have you been together?
Since August 1, 1983
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
A couple of hours.
Who asked whom out?
He did, after we had spent the whole night sitting on a dock at the lake talking.
How old are each of you?
45--I'm two months older.
Whose siblings do you see the most?
His during the summer.
Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Oh where to begin...
Did you go to the same school?
We graduated high school together but had never met. Ironically, we met 100 miles away, out of state, where we now live.
Are you from the same home town?
Yes.
Who is smarter?
Depends on the topic. I'm more 'book smart' while he's more everyday smart.
Who is the most sensitive?
Definitely him.
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We hardly eat out, but we both like T-Bones.
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Bermuda, or is it Milwaukee? I dunno which is further.
Who has the craziest exes?
Neither one of us has crazy ex's. (dunno which is correct: exes or ex's)
Who has the worst temper?
Both of us can have bad tempers--I can control mine a little better.
Who does the cooking?
Me--all of the cooking actually.
Who is the neat-freak?
I wish one of us was a neat freak!
Who is more stubborn?
I'm Irish. There ya go.
Who hogs the bed?
Him, although we finally just got a queen-size after 23 years on a full, so it's much improved!
Who gets up earlier?
Him. I hate mornings.
Where was your first date?
Friendly's ice cream.
Who is more jealous?
Me.
How long did it take to get serious?
A week or two.
Who eats more?
Definitely him.
Who does the laundry?
He doesn't even know where the washer is.
Who's better with the computer?
He doesn't even use a computer except when he's forced to at work.
Who drives when you are together?
I drive there, he drives home.
Monday, November 23, 2009
A Thanksgiving Meme
1.What are the traditional favorites?
turkey, stuffing, mashed taters, squash, green beans, gravy, cranberry sauce, and black olives.
2.What new recipes will you try this year?
None--keeping it simple. I will be trying out my new 5 burner range though--woohoo!
3.What part of the meal do you never compromise?
It's basically always the same.
4.Who gets to carve the turkey?
Around here it's not 'who gets to,' it's more about 'who can mess it up less?
5.Family style around the table or buffet style and everyone sits wherever there's room?
Family style since there's only 4 or 5 of us.
6.How many will be at your table this year?
Five, the four of us and ds's gf.
7.Three best pies for Thanksgiving dessert?
Apple and custard--that's it.
8.Cranberry sauce...yeah or nay?
Yaay, but only jellied--no lumps.
9.What time do you eat Thanksgiving dinner?
This year will be early, about 12:30 or 1:00. I like to eat mid-afternoon, like 2-3:00 but ds and his gf have to hit her mother's for a second meal so we're bumping ours up.
10.Favorite leftover?
All of them!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
I'm drained.
Friday, November 6, 2009
It just boggles my mind
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Almost There
I just got an order of Shimmer yarn from Knitpicks and am going to cast on today for a Clapotis shawl for a Christmas gift. I hope I can finish in time! It's supposed to be a very easy pattern and most people seem to complete it in a month, but when it comes to knitting I am not 'most people.' Why do I frustrate myself like this? Every year it seems I wait for the last minute and then decide to start some big project with a looming deadline. I drive myself crazy!
On the family front, ds seems to be doing great living out on his own. We used to see him a lot, but now we hardly ever do : ( I'm happy for him, but I miss him a lot. Looked at a college with dd this weekend. She liked it well enough but still mentions joining the service sometimes. I'm praying she'll change her mind herself so that dh & I don't have to lay down the law and tell her we're not signing permission for that. We have to get going on that college application soon so she can get a dorm. We took a bunch of pics the other day hoping to get a good one to use for her sr photo. Here are a couple of possibilities. They haven't been cropped yet, or photoshopped, so just a preview...
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Busy busy!



Sunday, September 27, 2009
September Goals Update
SEPTEMBER GOALS:
1. exercise: 1 good 60 min. workout on weekends, 2-3 30 min. workouts during week
2. plan dinner and clothes the night before
3. get to bed by 10pm, 10:30 at the latest
4. pay bills weekly
5. write more often (here and in my journal)Well, I've done pretty well on numbers 2,3 and 5; not so well on 1 and 4. Will continue to work on those.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
We Must Always Remember
After many days of watching the coverage on tv, gallons of tears later, hubby and I determined that our lives would never be the same and that we needed to take action. We had made our living via the airlines, built our family and our home on the income that was no longer there. I needed to return to the workforce, however my former jobplace was a hundred miles away. There was no one in my industry nearby. My children were young and I was adament that no one else would raise them. I couldn't be apart from them for 8 or 10 hours a day. I decided the only thing I could do was get a job at their school. That way I would have the same schedule as them, no babysitters or daycare would be needed. That decision turned out to be the biggest silver lining of the entire tragedy. I took the job thinking it was temporary, surely the airlines would recover and I could stay home again, if not, I would find something better. Much to my surprise, I loved it! It was the best, most fun job (if least paid) that I ever had! And now, eight years later, I'm finishing up my teaching degree so that I will one day have my own classroom. I guess I won't be staying home or finding something better anytime soon! As for hubby, life in the airline industry post-9/11 was extremely stressful. It took three years of searching, but he finally found a job close to home that is perfect for him, one that he enjoys, one that has benefited the entire family. There is always a silver lining--sometimes you just have to be patient for it.
My heart, my thoughts, and my prayers go out to the thousands of families who continue to be affected by this event, to those who have suffered tragic personal loss, horrible personal injury, as well as extremely difficult financial losses. Lives will never be the same. We must always remember.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
September Goals
With that in mind...
SEPTEMBER GOALS:
1. exercise: 1 good 60 min. workout on weekends, 2-3 30 min. workouts during week
2. plan dinner and clothes the night before
3. get to bed by 10pm, 10:30 at the latest
4. pay bills weekly
5. write more often (here and in my journal)
Thursday, August 13, 2009
more than a month?!


I'm not doing very well here. Oh well. Despite it being summer, with no more classes and a reduced working schedule, it still feels busy! I did take some time of to be a slug--literally sitting around reading, knitting & watching tv. But then I got back to life--cleaning, working, etc. I've done a lot of gardening this summer. I attacked the perennials that have gotten out of control, dug them all up, split them and replanted all around the yard. I added some new stuff too, including two butterfly bushes. They smell fantastic and the butterflies and hummingbirds really love them!
Summer school ended yesterday and I start my student teaching assignment on 8/25. I'm very nervous about it! Next week I'll be going in to help set up the classroom. I can't believe it's already here!
One book I read recently has really provoked a lot of thought. It was "Skinny Bitch" by Rory Freedman and Kim Barnouin. It's about going vegan for a number of reasons. The authors feel the humans just weren't created to eat meat and dairy, and I'm wondering if that's where some of my stomach issues stem from. Also, the book discusses the various (disgusting) practices in factory farming and meat & processing plants. I wondered how much they might have been exaggerating things, but the small amount of reading I've done on the net substantiate a lot of it. I'm waiting for a couple more books to arrive from Amazon on the subject, but I have already pretty much given up almost all meat and dairy and can already see/feel a difference physically and on the scale. The other part of the book is on going organic. They discuss all the chemicals, hormones, antibiotics that are put into everything these days and how it all affects our bodies. I seriously wonder if that's why we have such high numbers of things like cancer and autism. I had been trying to get back to more whole foods for a while now, but this has spurred me on even more. I have been trying to buy more organic foods, but it's so expensive! Anyhow, I'll just see where this brings me and go with the flow. If anyone has any ideas/advice on going vegan I'd be glad to hear it or even just your opinion on the matter.
And just to include some pics....here's one of my little hummer buddies--isn't he cute?? and one of my flutterbies on the flutterby bush.
Friday, July 10, 2009
Missing in action
Monday, June 29, 2009
Bummer--just found this!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
a lazy way to post
Outside my window... The sun is shining, a welcome site after 3 weeks of rain
I am thinking... about either sitting down with my knitting or going kayaking, can't decide
I am thankful for... the sun
From the kitchen... marinating some steak to grill
I am wearing... my nightgown
I am creating... socks
I am going... to a surprise sweet 16 party today that my dd's bf is throwing for her, although she knows about it
I am reading... Prayers For Sale by Sandra Dallas
I am hoping... to get more motivated
I am hearing... hubby playing the drums
Around the house... it's a mess, all of it
One of my favorite things... coffee
A few plans for the rest of the week... read, knit, clean the house, meet up with friends from out of town on Sunday evening
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
I miss crafting
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Starting over (post attempt #2)
Starting over
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Sunday, May 10, 2009
The sky, the sky, the beautiful sky
Monday, May 4, 2009
Sunday, April 19, 2009
He's so technologically savvy....not!
Sunday
Thursday, April 16, 2009
It's here! It's here!
It feels good too. I'm knitting up my gauge swatch tonight so I can pick up the right size needles tomorrow after work, then tomorrow night I can cast on my shawl. It's a simple, casual shawl that can be worn with jeans, but also dressed up. It's going to be fabulous!!Thursday, April 9, 2009
First week of April
Had my 45th bday this week. Yikes---talk about middle-aged! Suddenly it's hitting me. I had a great day though. The kids got up early and cooked me a big breakfast. Got some beautiful cards and flowers, and my Blackberry. A friend gave me a lavendar scented relaxation basket with nice goodies in it from Bath and Body Works along with the makings for some nice cosmos. Dh and I went out to eat at our favorite place. A fun day!
I'm more than halfway up the front of my mauve sweater (already did the back), and it's coming along nicely. I placed an order for some Koigu Kersti yarn (this one:http://www.yarnzilla.com/product_info.php?cPath=1_1096_1389&products_id=6727 ) to make this shawl http://www.ravelry.com/patterns/library/shawl-that-jazz . I cannot wait for it to arrive--I think it will be gorgeous!
Sunday, March 29, 2009
In other news, I haven't scrapped much at all. I did however, attend a fun crop in CT with Lorna and my SJ girls on 3/7! They're always good for some laughs and great conversation. I did a mini winter album from a kit that came out really cute, and the next day I did a couple of other random lo's. I've been doing some knitting--am working on the back of my Cricket sweater. I've been checking out some new (to me) yarn shops over the past couple of weekends and getting a lot of inspiration! I have resisted the urge to add to my yarn stash but have purchased a couple of books. One is on beaded knitting. I was going to knit a beaded shawl for dd to wear to bf's prom, but she wasn't crazy about the idea so I didn't bother. I will make one for myself though at some point. It would be nice to have something pretty like that for a wedding or other event. Most people plan the accessories based on the outfit--I'm usually the one trying to find an outfit to match an accessory! lol
Thursday, February 26, 2009
half over already?
Today I am going to (in this particular order):
knit on my sweater for a while and watch tv
go snowshoeing
do homework
read (for pleasure)
Monday, February 23, 2009
winter break

I'm going to use this week to catch up on some stuff around the house as well as focus on getting my eating under control and making exercise a habit again. I started off with a bang this morning--shoveled out from 2 feet of snow!
I also plan on doing some snowshoeing. I bought a couple of pairs the other day and it's so much fun and a great workout. It reminds me of kayking in a way...when I'm out on the water (or on the snow) I'm focused only on what I'm doing and the scenery around me. It's almost meditative, and a great escape from the world for a while!
The other two things I want to get in this week are knitting and reading. My current wip is a raglan sweater that I'm praying will come out wearable (I'm not the best knitter in the world). As for reading, right now I"m working through The Power of Less by Leo Babauta. It's a great little book that gives great tips and strategies for organizing your life, which I desperately need!
Monday, February 16, 2009
feeling a little stressed
On the homefront--dh is feeling much better after being sick as a dog since Thursday, but now dd is coming down with something. She went out to the dance studio today but I don't think she'll last long. It's winter carnival week at school too, so she might be missing a lot of fun activities. The worst part is that I have to be down in the southern part of the state for most of tomorrow for school so I won't be here to take care of her : (
Saturday, February 14, 2009
I'm a failure at project 365
It's Valentines Day...my valentine is sick with the flu, so there won't be any romance or gifts for me today. Oh well! I'm actually taking off for the day anyway...have to drive down to Boston and visit the Museum of Fine Arts for a class. I'm looking forward to browsing through the artwork, and am hoping the textile exhibit will be open. I'm also looking forward to a sub from my favorite Italian deli (LaCascia's, Medford) and maybe a bit of shopping in the city.
Happy Valentines Day to you!
Sunday, February 8, 2009
Day 36
Silly dog! Ds was emptying the trash the other night, so Julia stuck her head into the top to lick it (gross, I know). Well the edge got stuck on her tags and she couldn't get free. It was hysterical to watch--she couldn't figure out what the heck was going on! I grabbed my camera and snapped a few pics and even took a video. Maybe I can figure out how to post it here.Day 36
Day 35
Day 33
Sunday, February 1, 2009
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Blog Tag
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Day 28--snow, lots and lots of snow
Day 27--stylin mama
Monday, January 26, 2009
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
Day 22
Day 21
Jillian kicked my butt this morning! Dd and I watch the Biggest Loser every week, so when I happened to notice this dvd at wally-world I figured I'd try it out. Cocky me--I figured "I've been exercising, I can handle the intermediate workout." Yeah right! The beginner one was tough enough! Jillian rocks, but I could never stand for her yelling at me like she does those poor people on the show. I'd tell her where to stick that weight bar in a hurry!Day 20
This is me...yes really...stop laughing! It's me 23 years ago, on my honeymoon. Ignore the big hair--it was the 80's after all. But look at that body!! I had trouble finding clothes small enough... imagine that! I know I will never be this tiny again, but I can do a lot better than I'm doing now.Printing this pic out for motivation!
Monday, January 19, 2009
Day 19
Oh, and btw---yes, I snapped this shot while driving down the interstate at night, something I don't really recommend trying. Let's just say the flash is blinding.
Day 18
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Days 16 and 17

I LOVE TO READ! It's really hard to create time to read when you're also having to read so much assigned crap for school. My name finally came up on the reserve list at the library for this new book, right at the same time my 3 new classes were starting. Luckily it's an easy read and a nice escape from reality. Combining two of my favorite passions--reading and knitting--what could be better?!
MR. TECHNOLOGY...Better late than never! This man barely touched a computer before a couple of years ago when he started a new job. Now dd has to fight with him for computer time.
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Day 15
Slacker!

Day 12
Addicted...totally...it's the first thing I do when I wake up, the last thing I do before bed, and anytime I can check my mail and boards during the day, I do. What did I ever do without the internet??


Day 14
And they're saying this is the warmer part of the week.
See that? It's a negative sign in front of that 3.8 degrees, and it's only going down from there.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Days 10 and 11
Friday, January 9, 2009
Day 9
Thursday, January 8, 2009
Wednesday, January 7, 2009
Day 7
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Days 4 & 6
Day 5: Speaking of time...this is what rules my life these days...the clock. It's always telling me that I need to do something or be somewhere and that I am almost late for whatever it is!

Day 6: Sometimes it feels like the only time I get to see dd is when I'm driving her somewhere. It's ok though--I'm glad she's busy and happy, and sometimes the best talks happen in the car!
































